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- We cherish your concerns.
Nationwide concern contest.
- Let me introduce our guests today.
It's been 13 years since she debuted.
Park Min-ji.
Yook Joong-wan and Kang Joon-woo from a talented band, Rose Motel.
- Looking good.
- It's been 13 years since you debuted?
- Really?
- She debuted when she was a student with a movie...
- A movie called Jenny, Juno... - Jenny, Juno.
- Jenny, Juno! - It was about a student getting pregnant.
- You remember that very well.
- Thank you.
- You came out with a sweet love song.
I guess it's because you're in love.
- It's called 'Declaration of Marriage'.
- I heard you're doing a concert.
- That's right. - When?
- We're opening our concert with this song on the 29th,
and we'll play the song.
- Nice, nice.
- We turned the actual Declaration of Marriage into a song.
- "Will you love your wife forever?" - "Yes."
We didn't like that.
We made a song where you can answer "No" to that question.
- Realistically.
- Your hair looks like a jellyfish.
So sweet.
- Will you understand if your husband drinks 3 times a day?
- No. - You should say yes to this.
- It's 3 days.
Will you love each other 8 times a week even if you're really tired?
- Yes!
This is funny.
- Can lyrics be this realistic?
- They are loving each other. - I love you, I love you.
- I'm sorry, I'm sorry. I aimed the wrong way.
- This is what it's like.
- I'm sorry. - I only watched this on TV.
- This song is really sweet,
but is your actual love life this sweet?
- You are both newlyweds.
- It's sweet.
- But you look sad.
- Your face looks like when you just ate a bitter medicine.
- Faced with reality.
- It's like he ate 2 Kong Jin Dans.
- Faced with reality.
- I fought with my wife a few days ago.
- Why did you fight?
- I'm into buying equipment these days. - Musical equipment?
- I'm into buying cameras, ovens and dishwashers... - What?
- I'm into buying those equipment.
- Dishwasher.
- I texted her if I could buy some light fixtures,
and she replied "."
She was a little angry.
- She got angry when you just asked her?
- I had already paid for it.
- That might make her angry.
- His wife will come on this show.
- 'My husband keeps buying things'.
- We have 3 concerns today as usual.
Let's see the concern keywords.
- 'Fixing it again?'
'Ultimatum'
'The guy who did it 130 times'
- 130 times?
- Isn't this Dong-yeob's concern?
The guy who did it 130 times?
- Unfortunately, it's my concern.
- We have some similar concerns to this concern previously on our show,
but I think this might be the worst of all.
The title is 'Ultimatum'.
Hello.
I'm a housewife in my 40s.
There were many concerns about husbands who love to drink on this show.
For me, those concerns seemed like nothing.
My husband starts by drinking 2 bottles of makgeolli every day,
He drinks soju, beer, whiskey and everything else.
He even makes his own alcohol
and drinks it by himself.
- He makes his own alcohol.
- Our house smells like fermenting alcohol all year round.
- 'Hey, spread this vinyl on the floor."
"I need to spread the hard rice here."
- "Do it yourself."
- "Why are you complaining so much?"
"Just do as I say!"
- I have to help him make alcohol every day.
On top of that...
- "Clean this up and bring out the food."
What?
- I have to prepare his food as well.
Some people tell me...
- "Yikes, how can you stand this?"
"Pack your stuff and run away."
"Poor thing, you need to get divorced."
- People around me is suggesting to get divorced.
- Suggesting divorce. - Oh no.
- I can't stand it anymore.
I came here today to give my husband a final ultimatum.
Please give me the courage.
I feel guilty whenever I hear concerns about alcohol.
I don't have much to say.
He must love drinking a lot if he's even making his own drinks.
- You drink a lot too.
- Yes.
- What do you think about this concern?
- I would make something like
a strawberry drink.
- That's cute. - This person is making fermented malt.
- They used to live in a Hanok house in the old days,
so it would ventilate well,
and it was a suitable environment for making alcohol.
It's hard to make in apartments. - Right.
He probably has bad drinking habits
if he drinks so much.
- Anyway, we will meet our guest now.
Please come out.
- Hello-o-o.
Hello-o-o.
- We've never heard of someone making alcohol at home.
Is he in the alcohol industry?
How does he know how to make alcohol?
- He works in a regular office.
He drinks alcohol a lot.
- A lot.
- And he would study alcohol on his own.
So he started making homemade alcohol,
and he even started making makgeolli and soju.
- Since when?
- But how can he make makgeolli and soju?
- Tell us how.
- Everyone who loves to drink might end up making their own alcohol.
- For makgeolli, you place a big vinyl on the floor.
- A vinyl? - Yes, and you spread the hard rice on it.
Then you mix the malt in it,
to ferment the malt.
The whole house reeks of fermented malt. - The smell...
- And I get drunk from the smell
and get a headache.
- You can get drunk from that smell. - Right.
- For soju, you pour 2 bottles of makgeolli
in a steam rice cooker.
And using a filter, you distill it
boiling for half a day.
- Drip drip drip.
- You collect the drips,
to make soju.
- What's the hardest thing for you
because of your husband making alcohol?
- There are a lot of fruit flies when the malt is being fermented.
- Fruit flies.
- Yes. - Fruit flies.
And lady bugs.
- Our veranda is swarmed by bugs,
and they would stick to our laundry that is hung up to dry.
I want to spray bug repellants but...
- It will ruin the alcohol. - So he won't let me spray it.
- Do you live in an apartment?
- Yes.
- Poor neighbors. - How big is the apartment?
- That's what drives me crazy.
- Does he clean up after then?
- No.
He would ask me to bring
different water and malts.
He won't use just any water,
and tells me to buy special water from Pyungchang or Jeju.
For malts, he tells me to
buy malts from the countryside that takes 30-40 minutes by car.
And for cleaning up...
- He must help you out.
- Huh?
- You should have a taste.
- The malt residue would get stuck on the sink,
which I have to scrub off.
- What I don't understand the most is,
why do you do it?
Why do you do that for him? - Why do you do that for him?
- He's from Gyungsangdo and he loses his temper easily.
So if I don't do this.
- Then what happens?
"Is it so hard to buy some malt?"
- "You little..."
- You look like a Gyungsangdo man.
- We have someone from Gyungsangdo, and he's not like that.
- He listens to his wife really well.
"Honey, can I buy this?"
- Not all men from Gyungsangdo are like that.
- How much alcohol do you have at home then?
- He eats everything he makes.
- Wow.
So you don't have any alcohol at home?
- Whether he succeeds or fails, he drinks them all.
- Even when he succeeds.
- We should meet the husband first.
- We should meet him now.
- I see a guy,
but I don't think it's him judging by his looks.
- I can tell.
It's hard to spread your legs so widely.
Spreading the legs so widely.
- I am proud.
- Hello.
- He seems very masculine.
- Tell us how you make your alcohol.
We all want to know.
- You make hard rice using glutinous rice.
You mix hard rice, malt and rice,
and then go through 3 stages of fermenting
for about 24 to 30 days.
If you drink it,
it tastes amazing.
Soju is usually distilled.
And its alcoholic percentage
will increase up to 30% and 40%
every time you distill it.
- What was the strongest one you made?
- I don't have a alcohol measuring device, so I would just taste it.
- By taste.
- But why...
- But why do you insist on
making your own alcohol. - It's burdensome.
- One time I tasted an alcohol
made by my wife's grandmother
and it was amazing.
The smell of fermenting malts was unbelievable.
- Homemade alcohol does taste good.
- It tasted amazing.
- It feels good, doesn't it?
Listening to this,
right?
- I'll send you some in a package.
- Package.
- No thanks.
- It sounds fun and everything,
but it's a concern for your wife.
It must be so hard for her with all the bugs.
- It's because you haven't smelled the fermenting malts.
When you get home after a long day of work,
and smell the fermenting malt,
all your stress is relieved.
- His stress is relieved.
- Then you should clean up after
and buy the ingredients yourself.
But you're telling her to do all of that. - Why do you do that?
- When a man is working outside,
he doesn't have time to buy all that stuff.
I would just ask her to
wash glutinous rice and malt.
I would buy them myself because she kept buying the cheap imported ones.
And I tell them I need water from Gangwondo
and a container to store the alcohol.
- He thinks it's not a big deal,
but on top of making alcohol at home,
I have to prepare dishes to go with the alcohol. - What dishes?
- For example, he would text me
to make monkfish stew or boiled monkfish when it is raining outside.
- Monkfish stew or boiled monkfish?
- At home?
- How can you make that at home?
- And he would bring home lacquer tree. - Lacquer tree?
Lacquer tree chicken.
- Lacquer tree chicken.
- Because he needs to detox his body.
- He's really health-conscious.
- Making boiled chicken with lacquer tree.
- Not everyone can make it.
- But do you know how to make that?
- Why do you do it for him?
- Sometimes I fight back.
If I make something simple like Kimchi stew or Chive salad,
he tells me that the chives are not organic.
So I have to go to the traditional market to buy the organic chives.
- Can't you just eat simple meals at home?
You're asking for dishes that you can
only find in special restaurants. - At a famous restaurants.
- I guess I might have been
raised up in a different environment.
- Were you raised up in a noble family?
- I was raised in the countryside,
so I grew up eating these authentic food,
but my wife found them to be a bit strange.
I think everyone is getting the wrong impression of me,
but I'm a very family-oriented guy.
- He's saying that he's family-oriented.
- You're laughing. - What do you think?
- It's a lie.
- I'm so angry.
- Why?
- I would smell so much food so I lost my appetite,
and I lost 13 kg after I got married,
because I've been so stressed out.
My white blood cell count dropped a lot,
so I had to get a treatment
for a month at a hospital.
- Aren't you worried about her health?
- People pay money to lose weight these days.
She should be thankful.
- That's not true.
Your other arguments seemed a bit reasonable,
but this is not.
- Wow.
- I'm worried about her health too,
but the husband drinks a lot.
How is your health? - He looks healthy.
- I'm great.
- He has a strong physique.
- He says that he's healthy, but he isn't.
His gum has gotten really weak,
because he drinks every day.
So he had to pull put 4 teeth,
and he also has back pains.
But he would keep drinking while taking painkillers.
- While taking painkillers. - Drinking while taking painkillers.
- Wow. - He drinks 2 bottles of makgeolli
and 50 to 60 glasses of soju bomb.
- 50 to 60 glasses?
In one spot? - Yes.
- Not 5 to 6 glasses, but 50 to 60 glasses?
Wow.
Do you really drink 50 to 60 glasses while taking painkillers?
- This is exaggerated.
- It's exaggerated.
- I had an appointment for teeth implants,
and I went to a funeral.
I couldn't let my friend drink alone,
just because I pulled my teeth out.
- You can just drink a little then.
You don't need to 50 to 60 glasses.
- Do you have any bad drinking habits?
You might make mistakes if you drink 50 to 60 glasses.
- Not at all.
- Your legs become more spread out as you become more confident.
- Not at all.
Not at all. - Not at all.
- That must be his drinking habit.
- Tell us the truth. - Does he really have no drinking habits?
- His drinking habits are the worst.
- For example?
- For example.
- For example, when he comes home drunk,
he wakes up the kids,
and wakes me up as well and keeps drinking more.
He would swear and talk harshly,
and he even swung the toy plastic bat
which led to a different situation.
So...
We would fight everyday,
and I would get bruises on my wrist.
- Right. Because you can't control your strength.
- Wait,
so after he drinks...
- Does he get violent? - When he gets home,
what time is it approximately?
- Around 5 o'clock.
- 5 AM?
- AM?
- 5 AM? - Yes.
- And he drinks more?
- Yes.
- And he wakes up the kids?
- I don't do that every day.
- She said you do this every day. - No, that's not true.
- She said on average.
- I just give my kids a kiss when I get home.
- What about the plastic bat?
- You can get a little violent
when you're in an argument.
Is there a house in Korea
that hasn't had some bowls flying around?
- Do bowls have to fly around to make it a house? - No.
What do you mean bowls are flying around?
- Bowls don't fly around.
- We should hear what the kids have to say.
They won't lie. Hi.
- Hello. - Hello.
- Aww, so cute.
- What does your dad do when he's drunk?
- He says he's expressing his love,
but it hurts when he hits my body or legs.
- Really?
What does the younger brother think?
- He wakes me up in the middle of my sleep and I tell him to go away,
but he keeps waking me up and he smells like alcohol.
And he fights really loudly with mom. - Really?
Are you going to drink when you grow up?
- No.
- What about the older brother?
Are you going to drink when you grow up?
- I think he'll drink.
- He must've got it from his dad.
- Wow.
- Really.
- Your parents fight when
you're still awake, right?
How do you feel then?
- I feel sad.
- Yes.
You feel sad.
- Then what do you do?
- I feel so sad so I run up to them
and try to stop them, but it doesn't work so I cry.
- Right.
Do you think that your dad will change after today?
- His family came all the way here
because they couldn't stand it.
If he still can't fix his bad habits,
he should be kicked out.
- You guys are amazing.
You need to fix your dad's habit.
- What if he doesn't change?
- I'll kick him out and lock the door.
- You'll kick him out?
- I'm worried because when kids hear their parents fight a lot,
they sometimes hear it
after they have grown up.
- Really?
- My parents used to fight a lot,
and it has a really bad impact on you. - It's very stressful.
They say that kids feel like there's a war
when they see their parents fighting.
- I feel so sad so I run up to them
and try to stop them, but it doesn't work so I cry.
- He might have been drunk but how do you feel?
- What do you think about the kids getting hurt?
- I couldn't have a decent conversation because he was drunk.
So I went to the public sauna,
and I took the kids.
- With the kids? - Yes, I went to the public sauna once.
- So you ran away.
- So after I left the house,
my husband called me.
I didn't answer his call,
and he had called the police.
I told him to get divorced the next day,
because I couldn't stand it.
- And?
- He said "okay."
- He signed the papers? - We went to the court.
- Wow.
- You actually went to the court.
- And they gave me a 3-month consideration period.
And I kept thinking about our kids.
- Right. - So we let it pass.
And we went back a couple times.
- A couple times more? - Yes.
- To the court?
- The most upsetting thing is that
he doesn't remember anything the next day because he was drunk.
- He doesn't remember. - Right.
And that makes me so angry.
- Have you ever realized the severity of this problem,
if you even went to the divorce court?
- It actually felt good when I signed the papers.
It relieved our stress.
So I told her "Tell me when you feel too stress out."
"I'll sign the papers."
So we went back a couple times.
Back then...
- So you do it to relieve your stress?
- Getting divorced is just as difficult as getting married.
- But...
- There's a long waiting period,
and you usually make up during that time.
- You make up during that period?
- The thing is that,
she is suffering a lot right now.
She's having a hard time.
She's thinking that he might get better,
but he's actually getting worse.
He's even making his own alcohol now.
It's getting worse,
so she can't stand it anymore.
- You sound like a spokesperson.
- Pardon? - You sound like a spokesperson.
You're right.
- That's why I'm here.
You need to restrain yourself.
It took her a lot of effort for her
to come here and talk about this.
- She's trying really hard.
- She wouldn't be here if she was fine.
- Since you're so masculine,
do you know what's really manly?
It's to keep your promises.
How are you a manly man if you never even kept a promise?
- But...
- How are you a man if you can't even live up to your own words?
Huh?
Put your legs together.
- I even tried going to the court and signing a memorandum.
My ultimatum is that I want to change his habits
even if that means that I have to live apart from him with my kids.
I have to change his bad habits.
- You'll live apart for 5 years if he doesn't change?
- You think that's the last resort. - Right.
- Time to think. - It's literally an ultimatum.
- I really hope that you will make a promise
here on this show today.
- She came here determined.
- You need to think carefully.
The fact that she's going to court,
she's crying for help.
- Did you know that she was thinking like this?
- To be honest, I didn't know that
my family was so stressed out.
I didn't know.
It's going to be difficult, but I think I'll give it a try.
I'll start by quitting
for a month.
- Honestly speaking, do you think
that you can really quit drinking?
Just be honest.
- I think it might be hard to quit
for over a year.
I'll have to think about it a little. - Right?
- I think you should reduce your drinking.
- Drink little and don't make alcohol at home
- Just don't drink 50 to 60 glasses.
- How can he quit? He'll never be able to quit completely.
I don't think he can quit.
What was the longest time you quit drinking?
For about a month when we were going to the divorce court.
- That was pretty long.
- What did you do then?
What did you do other than drinking?
- I played with my kids and we traveled.
- That's nice.
-that sounds nice. - Nice.
- Yes.
My wife was doing really good too.
- That must've been a nice time.
Why?
- Tell us what's wrong.
- Her face says it all.
- His definition of quitting drinking is different.
Quitting means not doing it at all.
- But he reduced his drinking.
- He reduced his drinking.
- You heard the kids talk, right?
They said that your family had to come
all the way here to fix the problem.
Are you willing to change now?
- I'll set up different stages for myself
and gradually move to quitting for a year.
And then quitting forever.
- What do you think?
- It's a concern. - Jun-woo.
- Spending time with your family
is so much more joyful than drinking.
I think it would be wiser for you to
enjoy your time with your family before it's too late.
- I like to drink too and quitting drinking can be really difficult. - Of course.
- So I'm trying to find something
that I can really enjoy
such as exercising.
There are many other things out there that you can enjoy,
so I hope you can find one for yourself.
- We laughed when your kids said that they'll kick you out because they're cute,
but I don't think we should just laugh it off.
- Right.
- Please press the button if you think this is a concern.
- I want to press it again.
- 5, 4, 3, 2, 1.
Stop. - Stop.
Hey, hey.
Don't press it too much, it's your dad.
He's your dad.
Please say something to your wife.
- I know that you're struggling through,
but how can there always be good times?
Let's try to work this out.
- Please be more specific.
Realistically.
How will you change starting tomorrow?
- I'll try to quit for a month.
- Great.
- Right.
- Please say something to the kids too.
- Please say something to the kids.
- As a proud father.
- Tell them yourself.
- Proud...
- Proud?
- Talk to your younger son.
- Gyu-dong,
I'll try to quit for a month.
Okay?
- Do you think that your dad
can quit drinking for a month?
Do you think that he can do it?
- I don't think he can.
- Oh no.
- He lost his trust in his dad.
- It might be hard for you to
trust him right now.
Because he's been breaking his promises,
but he can quit successfully
only if you root for him. - Right.
- Cheers for dad!
- Nice.
- Wow.
- Let's see how many votes we got.
144?
- 144.
- 154?
144.
'Fixing it again?'
Hello.
I'm a working mom in my 30s.
It's been 7 years since I got married and my family is about to go broke,
all because of my husband who is obsessed with renovating.
Before we got married,
he asked me if he could borrow $1,000.
When he borrowed $1,000,
he got a makeover for his car.
I thought he would get better if we get married,
but it's getting worse and
he is now renovating a large gymnasium.
- A gymnasium?
- Rrrring.
"Honey, what are you doing?"
"I'm painting the wall right now."
"White is a trendy color right now."
Rrrring.
"Honey, where are you?"
"I'm taking the floor out. Black is a trendy color now."
The biggest problem is his messages.
"Honey, can you transfer $6,000 into my account?"
"I need to fix the ceiling."
Ring.
"Honey, I need $1,000."
Ring.
"Honey, can you put $500 into my account?"
"Honey, honey."
Ring, ring.
$500, $2,000.
Our family is about to sleep on the road,
while the gymnasium is turning into a castle.
How can I stop my husband?
Please help me.
What do you think?
- I'd get it if he was renovating a cafe or something.
It's not common to renovate a gym. - That's right.
A gymnasium doesn't need to follow the trend.
- Unless the mats are ripped apart.
- He seems to be investing rather than just doing it for a hobby,
so I want to hear from both sides.
- Okay then.
Let's welcome our guest now.
Please come out.
Yo-yo!
Hello-o-o.
She looks very young.
- You seem to have a lot of concerns.
- She seems depressed. - That's right.
- Your husband is renovating a gymnasium?
- It's been 4 years since he's been running a gymnasium. - 4 years.
- He renovates 3 times a year.
- That's too much. - 3 renovations in one year.
- That's every 4 months.
- Like every quarter.
- He would renovate the floor and ceiling.
And he replaced the sign 3 times?
- He replaced the sign almost every year.
It's like he's opening a new gym.
- I think he's constantly making minor changes.
- And he changes the equipment also? - Yes.
There are stickers that go on the window,.
and he keeps changing that.
- Changing the stickers on the window.
- He has to close business during renovation, right?
- Right.
- He can't do any lessons then.
- I know, it drives me crazy.
- Right.
- Our customers complain because there are no classes for a week.
- Does he hire people for renovation?
Or does he do it by himself? - He does it by himself.
To save some money.
- What if he needs extra help?
- I have to help him then.
One time he had to attach the mats to the wall,
and he asked me to do it.
I had to take my kids as well.
- You have kids.
- So we spent two days
in a place full of dust.
- That must be bad for the kids.
- He would spend all his time
in that dusty place and
he coughs black dust.
He wouldn't stop even after he got really sick once.
- Asking for money everyday
can be really annoying, right? - Yes.
- "Honey, please deposit $1,820 into this account."
- Like an ATM. - Isn't he treating you like an ATM?
Why don't you just not give him the money then?
- Then he would ask his mother...
- For money?
- Really?
- It's really serious.
- Let's meet the husband now.
Hello.
Where are you?
- Can you understand her concern?
- It's not like I'm drinking or smoking.
- That's what everyone says.
- I don't smoke.
- You don't smoke right?
And you don't drink?
- No, so I can't understand it.
- Can you just drink or smoke instead?
- Why are you so obsessed with renovating your gymnasium?
- I've been doing jiu jitsu and martial arts
since I was 20 years old.
It's always been my dream to open my own gymnasium,
and since I opened up my own gym, I want to make it the best.
- But you don't have to take it this far.
- If I set my mind on something, I have to get it done.
- Have you ever changed something back to its original state?
- Yes, I have.
- So...
- I changed the floor about 3-4 times.
- That's a problem then.
This is the problem.
- Let's take a look at
how he's renovating the gym.
1st interior.
- This looks nice.
- Doesn't it look good? - It looks so nice.
It's nice and simple.
- It looks very cozy.
- 2nd. - 2nd?
- It looks better.
- That graffiti looks weird though.
- Right. It looks like hip hop.
- That cartoon character.
- The mats.
- The mats have been changed.
It's getting better.
- I don't think he had to change the back.
He even changed the back.
- The overall tone is changed. - To black.
- He changed it again.
- Nice.
- It looks completely different.
It looks better.
- The floor is changed.
The floor is changed and the wall is changed.
- It's actually not bad.
- Nice.
The problem is solved!
- There still some left.
- It's gradually getting better.
- It's nice.
- It upgraded completely.
- It changed a lot.
- The 6th version is the best, right?
The 6th version is the best.
- It looks good.
- The mats have changed noticeably.
- The mat in the 3rd photo is an air mattress.
It's really nice so I replaced the entire floor with it...
- You replaced the whole floor.
- Yes.
- That must've cost a lot.
- Can't you just pick your favorite
and renovate one last time?
- Right.
- I can't help it.
I want to renovate whenever I see something.
- Can't help it.
Because you want to renovate it.
- Doesn't it cost more if you renovate little by little? - Yes.
- Yes, I think so.
But if I see something I want to fix,
I have to fix it. - Try to restrain yourself.
- How much did it cost?
It must've cost a lot.
- The last renovation I did was replacing the floor with a gymnastics mat.
It costs over $10,000 for a company to do it, but I did it myself for $6,000.
- Did your business flourish after you did all these renovations?
- I'm curious.
Did your business get busier? - Yes.
- When first opened the gym, I had 15 members.
- 15 members.
- Now we have about 150 to 200 members.
- That's a lot.
I think we might've been fished.
- They might've come here to advertise.
- Did they come here to advertise?
- It's not that big of a concern.
- Are you a fraud couple?
- "Honey, did I do a good job?
- Because that could be your intentions
for coming on this show.
- No, no.
It doesn't matter if the gym gets busier.
- Why not?
- Because I earn $2,000.
- When your members went up from 15 to 150?
- Yes.
- Do you still earn the same amount?
- A little over $2,000?
- What about your house?
Your house...
- We used to live in a 25-pyung house when we first got married,
but we had to move to a 19-pyung villa.
Now we're renting
a 19-pyung apartment.
- The gymnasium is getting fancier,
but your house is getting smaller.
It must be hard for you to have such a tight budget.
- I stopped working when I gave birth,
but I decided to get back to work now.
- So you're working now?
- Yes, I'm working.
It takes my kid 40 minutes to get to school.
- That's far.
- It's far.
Because my husband wanted to.
So we have to move but
I'm worried because we don't have enough money.
- You have to move but you have no money.
- I think it looks good now. Why do you keep renovating?
- After I changed the floors, it became really elastic
and the kids keep kicking the ceiling.
- They kick the ceiling? - What?
- So you're going to change the ceiling as well?
- The floor. - The kids are touching the ceiling?
So you have to change the ceiling? - Is it a spring or something?
- So you want to attach the mat on the floor?
- I want to open up the ceiling.
- That's a big construction.
- Look at her face.
Did you just hear this?
- Yes.
- If you open up the ceilings, you have to replace it back later.
- I have to do it later.
- Right.
- Don't do that.
- It takes 40 minutes for your kid to go to school. - Right.
- Renovating the gym is important too
but shouldn't you deal with moving first?
- We're trying to move into a more expensive apartment,
and we don't have enough money for that.
If we save money foe moving,
then I can't renovate the gym.
I can't keep up the quality of the gym. - So you're not moving to a new house
because you can't afford it,
but why do you keep renovating your gym when you can't afford it?
- The house is rented.
It's someone else's house.
- You don't care about it because it's rented?
- Isn't your gym rented as well?
- The gym is like my investment,
and if I hadn't renovated it,
it wouldn't look like the way it is and I would have very few members.
- Do you think that it's all because of the renovation?
- That's right.
- But that's why all these financial problems arose.
- So some of your gym members,
who help you with the renovation are here.
- Hello.
- Nice to meet you.
- How long have you been a gym member for?
- Over a year.
He renovated a lot when I first came.
so I actually helped out a lot...
- That was the peak.
- Do you like that the interior keeps changing?
- I think it's good now.
I admit that it wasn't the best in the beginning,
because I had seen it.
But if I thought that
he was a bad teacher,
I wouldn't have went to his gym.
I think he shouldn't worry too much about the interior because he's talented.
- That's important.
- Who is that on the side?
Doesn't he look like a master?
- He has an aura. - Hello.
I'm one of the masters at the gym.
- What do you think about this concern? Do you have any complaints?
- I don't have complaints but I'm worried.
The number of our customers fluctuate
if there's a renovation.
- Really?
- Right.
- Does your customers drop when there's a renovation?
- When you work out, you need to do it consistently.
But if there's a break because of the renovation,
some customers would move to a different gym.
- The customers move to a different gym. - Yes.
That happens sometimes.
I went to his house once,
and I was expecting his house to look nice
considering the size of his business. - But it was...
- It wasn't what I expected.
I think his wife must be worried
because he's investing too much on the gym
and not spending any money on the house.
- How would you rate
your gymnasium
on a scale to 10?
- I would give it a 10.
- 10.
- It's really nice.
- But the house is a 1.
- Right.
- But he wants to open up the ceiling.
What do you think?
- I hope he doesn't do that. - Really.
- I think you might have to go through more renovations.
- We sometimes discuss together.
He tells me he wants to fix something,
and asks for my opinion.
I tell him that he doesn't need to fix it.
- He already made his decision though. - That's right.
- He'll end up doing what he wants.
- Why ask someone else when
you'll do what you want anyway?
- I won't get anything done if I take everything into consideration.
I think I should do what's best for the gym. - He doesn't listen to anyone.
- I go to sleep with my kids after I feed them,
because I'm so tired.
And he would come home and wake me up.
- And he asks you to prepare a meal?
- I can't even imagine that. - Then what do you do?
- I don't have time to make the side dishes.
So he bring home some meat.
- He buys it himself. - And he asks you to grill it?
- Why can't he do it himself?
- But he insists that I do it.
- Why?
- I go to work at 9 AM and come back home at 12 AM.
And I would starve everyday.
- What?
- I don't have time to eat, because I have consecutive lessons.
Since I'm alone and tired at the gym,
I want to be treated nicely when I come home and see my family.
So I... - You can order some black bean noodle.
Why would you starve? - I really don't have time.
- You don't have time to eat some black bean noodle?
- You have time to renovate but no time to eat?
You can eat delivery food in 10-15 minutes.
- Is he really that busy?
- I think he can find time to eat. - Right.
How can you not have time to eat?
- He has a lot of external jobs.
- He minds other people's business a lot.
- I'm really bad at saying no,
and refusing people's requests.
- In my opinion,
I think his habit of changing up his car
moved on to the gymnasium.
I think investing is just an excuse,
and you enjoy changing and fixing things.
You're just calling it investing.
- Why did you change up your car so much?
- I was immature back then...
- He's still the same. - And you're mature now.
You're mature now. - That's right.
- Are you mature now?
Is that why you're renovating?
- I think that he's just enjoying
a large-scale hobby now.
- I don't think so.
- That's why you keep doing it,
because you don't think it's pointless.
- I think that your husband will
keep saying that it's all
going to be a good investment
for the family in the long run. - Right.
- You came here today because you couldn't stand it anymore.
Was there a big reason that made you
decide to come on this show?
- He keeps getting me involved in the business.
- He's asking you to help in the gym when you have your own job?
- Yes...
- But you work until 8 PM.
- Yes.
Like dropping off the kid members...
- After work?
- When I get off work at 8 PM,
I would drop off the kids
on my way home.
And I would also give them a ride if there are special events or field trips.
- Do you have to clean up the restroom too? - Yes.
- That's...
- Asking you to clean up the restroom.
- Are you asking your wife to help you out
to save a few pennies?
- I feel more energetic
if my wife is around.
- I think you're really greedy. - All the bad qualities.
- So I hope that my wife would quit working
and just stay by my side...
- But she has to work to afford your living expenses.
Are you going to pay her then? - If she works at the gym,
the gym will flourish and we'll be able to fill in the financial gaps.
- Will you stop renovating if your wife works at the gym with you?
- I have to finish what I started and then I'll think about it later.
- Opening up the ceiling? - Don't even think about it.
- And add more shower booths.
- Stop.
- Please tell him.
- We have enough shower booths now and they're working just fine.
- Then why add more?
- He even cares about the interior design for the shower facility.
- Shower facility interior?
- Is it a sauna?
- He tried installing a light to warm up the shower room,
and the light actually exploded.
- How can I satisfy everyone?
- You need to learn how to listen to others in order to succeed. - Right.
- And it's not just other people, it's your family's opinion. - Right.
It's your wife's thoughts,
not some stranger's.
- If I overcome that...
- Overcome your wife?
- Even large corporations with great leaders
have daily business meetings.
Why do you think they do that?
It's to listen to and accommodate other people's opinions.
Even the smartest leaders do that.
Why don't you listen to others
and keep getting defensive
at other people's opinions?
- Everyone told him not to open up the gym,
because we were not financially stable.
But he got a loan and
opened his gym.
I don't think that all of this would've happened
if he listened to other people back then. - That's right.
Your husband reached his goal to a certain extent,
by opening his own gym.
Let's think from the wife's perspective now.
- The family's dream...
- She started in a 25-pyung house and now living in 19-pyung. - On a lease.
And $30,000 in debt.
- The kids have to walk 45 minutes to go to school.
Her husband's dream came true but she's still against it.
- But he's saying it's all for the family. - Wait a minute. Go on.
Stop me.
I can't get in trouble anymore.
- You can't beat Young-ja even with jiu jitsu.
- So your dream came true.
What are you going to do about your wife's dream?
- I have just a few more
way to go...
- How much is that few more?
- Okay, let me ask you something then.
How long has it been since you reached 150 members?
- A little less than 2 years.
- Is it increasing or remaining steady?
- It fluctuates. - So it's not steadily increasing.
Then you didn't profit much from all those renovations.
Think about it.
You won't reach 300 members
just because you change a shower booth.
- I want to tell you something.
When I first debuted as 'Rose Motel',
I earned a little money to buy some equipment.
So I started buying different equipment.
I bought it to improve myself and my music,
and I did it for 7 years.
I thought that I was buying all these equipment for my music,
but I realized that I was just
buying it for my own satisfaction.
And my guitar skill...
- Is it the same? - It's the same.
I always thought that I would play the guitar better
if I buy this equipment. - Right.
- Your new song
hasn't changed
from 2 years ago.
- You should work with what you already have.
- Work with what you have. - Work with what you have.
Because you're talented enough. - That's a nice comment.
- Because he's just like me.
- Please say something to your husband.
- The gym looks great as it is.
If you give me the money you spend on renovation,
I'll save it up and
make a better living for us.
- Right.
- Enough with the renovations.
It's your time
to vote now. - Jun-woo, is this a concern?
Concern.
- Your dream was...
- To be a talented master. - But I think he lost his true dream.
- I think it's a concern. You're married now.
- Right.
- You need to dream with your family,
but you're running toward your dream all by yourself
and your family is suffering.
I think you should build your dream with your family.
- The good thing is that your customers have a lot of faith in you,
and your talent has been proved.
I think you should hold off renovation
just until you get financially stable.
- It's your turn to press the button.
Please press the button if you think this is a concern.
5, 4, 3, 2, 1.
Okay. - Stop.
Please say something to your wife.
- Please tell her. - Say "Yoon-mi."
- Listening to everything...
- Please call her name,
Yoon-mi.
- Yoon-mi, I assume you're having a hard time.
- She is having a hard time.
Don't assume it. - She is having a hard time.
- I suppose you're having a hard time...
- So stubborn.
- And?
- I'll think about stopping renovations if you can come work at the gym.
- How much will you pay her every month?
Tell us.
- How much will you pay her?
- $4,500 to $5,000.
- I'll work so hard then.
- I will stop renovating
until I make that money then.
- Really?
He'll give you $5,000.
- He won't renovate.
- Okay?
Okay.
- Nice.
- But then he's a bad person.
He could've given her $5,000 all this time.
- Wow.
- But he didn't give it to her.
That's bad. That's really bad
I thought he had no money.
- Just to add on,
as a person who loves to renovate,
you always end up coming back
to the original because it's the best.
- Right.
Like first-love.
- So don't worry too much and cheer up.
- Let's see the result.
How many votes did it get?
The last digit is 6.
It's over 100 votes.
140?
-146?
136.
- It's high.
- That's first place.
- 'The guy who did it 130 times'
- We had forgotten about this one.
- Finally this concern.
- Hello.
I'm a healthy male in my 20s.
Spring has sprung again.
I heard that couples hold hands and kiss
under the cherry blossom trees during this time.
Am I the only one that doesn't know what that feels like?
- He's never had a girlfriend before.
- I go on a lot of blind dates.
But whenever I ask them out
on a second date,
"No, please don't call me."
They would say it right to my face...
- So stern.
- I'm lucky if I even get a text back.
Someone didn't read my message for over a month.
- She must've blocked him.
- I went on 130 blind dates just last year.
- 130 blind dates?
- Wow.
- Unbelievable. - He went on 130 blind dates.
- How can you go on 130 blind dates?
- I keep getting rejected.
I broke up with my first girlfriend
in 3 days and she was my last girlfriend...
- Just in 3 days? - Ring.
"Let's break up."
"My grandmother is sick."
- What?
What does that have to do with breaking up?
- Oh no.
It's not like I haven't tried hard.
I'm actually
187cm tall...
- Wow.
- How tall? - 187 cm.
- Like a model.
- I lost 40kg because I heard that
girls don't like overweight guys.
But I keep getting rejected every time I go on a blind date.
I want to succeed in my 131st blind date
so I can kiss and hold hands with my girlfriend under the cherry blossom trees.
Please help me out.
- I think he can get plenty of girlfriends with that height. - I know.
- He's 187cm tall.
- There must be a lot of sick grandmothers. - Right.
You never broke up with anyone with an excuse like that, right?
- I just tell them honestly.
- You just tell them honestly?
- Isn't that better?
- Yes, it's less frustrating.
- Right.
- I can't believe that he went on 130 blind dates.
- It's unbelievable.
- I can't believe his friends set him on 130 blind dates.
- Right.
- Let's meet our guest now. - I'm so curious.
- Please come out.
- Let's take a look.
- 187cm tall.
He's good looking.
- Hello.
- Oh. - I get it.
I get it.
- I see why.
- I get it. - I see why.
- We've never had balls flying everywhere
during the 6 years we did show.
- There must be 130 of these balls.
- So funny.
- He looks fine.
- He's tall. - Looking robust.
- And tall.
- Please introduce yourself.
- Hello.
My name is Lee joon-young and I'm 21 years old.
- Wait.
If you're only 21 years old...
- I don't think you be worried about this.
- You're still young.
- No
All my friends have tried everything already.
- Huh?
- What?
- Try what?
- Walking under the cherry blossom trees and watching a movie...
- And kissing. - Yes...
And I feel lonely whenever I see that.
- I think girls would like his appearance.
- Right.
- You've never watched a movie with a girl?
- No, I always watched it by myself.
- Oh no. - But if you went on 130 blind dates...
- Who set up all those blind dates? - How?
- I used to weigh 141kg.
I liked this girl so I asked her out.
But she rejected me because I was fat. - Really?
- So I went on a diet and went down to 85kg.
- And now? - I've gained some muscle so I weigh 102kg now.
- You look perfect now. - You don't seem like 102kg.
- After I lost my weight,
my friends have been setting me up on blind dates since last year
and I went on 130 blind dates so far.
- Your friends are incredible too.
How did they find 130 people?
- Friends of their girlfriends.
And their friends. - Yikes.
- A friend of a friend of a friend.
And I went on dates with friends of my female friends.
- Is it pyramid selling? - It so difficult.
- You should've set up an insurance company.
- I think I was introduced to at least 10 people up to 30-40 people.
- By one person? - Yes.
- Wow. That's amazing.
We have a photo of him before dieting.
I'm curious. Let's take a look.
- Wow.
- So cute.
Lee Joon-young, who dreams to become a scientist.
- Is this your graduation photo?
- For elementary school graduation. - Elementary school graduation.
- Yes.
- I think you already look like a scientist there.
- Scientist Lee Joon-young.
- So far, I don't see why he's rejected.
- I don't understand at all. - He even has a great voice.
Why do you think that
you keep getting rejected?
- I'm not sure why.
I think all the girls I met so far
were too picky about appearances.
- Your appearance is fine.
What's wrong with your appearance? - It's fine.
- I'm not sure either.
- Normally, guys pay for the meals on blind dates.
You must've spent a lot of money. - I think I spent about $10,000.
It includes money I spent on blind dates and on my friends who set up the dates.
- A lot of additional costs.
- And you have to buy new clothes to go on blind dates.
- I used to always wear track suits.
But boyfriend looks are popular now.
- Boyfriend look? - I threw away all of my track suits.
- Is that your boyfriend look?
- You researched too much.
- How did you get the money?
Did you work part-time jobs?
- I get allowance from my mom.
I think my mom will kill me if she sees this. - Why?
- Because I spent $10,000...
- Right.
You'll get scolded.
- You can completely replace the floor mats with that money.
- And open up the ceiling.
- But I don't understand,
you were just rejected all of a sudden?
- I was rejected even before talking to someone.
- Even before talking?
- Yes. - Why?
- You were rejected when you didn't even meet them? - Yes.
- Why? - Why?
- I should check his profile picture.
- So you were rejected even before talking with someone. What else?
- One time, I was having a really good blind date.
The girl brought me some pickled radish.
- Nice.
- Pickled radish... - Wow.
- She was the first girl to bring me some pickled radish.
- Right. So romantic.
- Nice, nice.
- Is it romantic if someone brings pickled radish?
- And?
- So I thought it was going great.
- She brought you pickled radish.
- And she didn't answer my calls the next day.
- Why is that?
- I don't know.
- I don't get it. - So you went out with someone?
- For 3 days. - For 3 days.
- Did you really go out with her? - Yes.
- I get it.
- On mutual agreement.
- She liked it when I called her name.
So...
- Calling her by her name. - Yes.
- Try calling her name.
- Instead of calling her older sister.
Say "Min-ji" instead of older sister.
Min-ji.
- Min-ji.
- It's nice.
- And? - There was a closed hospital nearby.
- A closed hospital?
- A closed hospital. - A hospital that is closed down.
- So I gave her a hug,
and asked her out. - So...
- In a closed hospital.
- I'm getting the feeling.
- What did she say?
- She texted me 3 days later saying that her grandmother was sick.
- Her grandmother got sick.
- Right.
- A closed-down hospital...
- So I texted her saying
that I wanted to started again. - After 3 days.
- After 3 days?
- What do you mean "Start again?"
- And what happened?
- She said if I text her again, she'll block me.
- Not to text her again. - Yikes.
- So you don't even know why?
- Think about it carefully.
What happened during those 3 days?
That made her turn away.
- Tell us.
So what did you do for 3 days?
- We just ate spicy rice cakes.
- Spicy rice cakes. - Eating spicy rice cakes.
- And I gave her presents.
- Presents... - What presents?
- I gave her chocolates.
- That's nice.
- And we hugged and held hands.
- Nice. - Holding hands.
- And?
- That was it.
- So you held hands and hugged and she dumped you the next day?
- Yes.
- Wait a minute.
The two sons.
Can you go outside for a minute?
I need to ask him something.
Yikes.
The younger son's face is like
"I'm not going to miss out on anything."
- It's like he knows everything already.
- But you've had physical contacts before. - You held hands and everything.
- I almost walked under the cherry blossom trees.
It was actually White Day. - Nice.
- There was this girl that I've been talking to for about a week.
After our date together,
I walked back to her dorm.
And then she gave me a hug,
which was really nice. - The girl gave you a hug?
- Yes.
- First? - Yes.
- And?
- So what happened?
- It was my birthday the next day.
So she brought me a birthday cake,
and she gave me another hug.
- Nice. - And?
- I was a little drunk so I gave her a kiss on her cheek.
And I came home feeling all happy,
but she dumped me the next day.
- Why?
- I don't know.
- So frustrating.
- Are you here to tease us?
- I don't understand.
- She hugs you and says "My grandmother is sick."
What were some of the other bizarre excuses you heard?
- There were a lot.
- Just what you remember.
- And it's time for...
- What is it?
- Is there something special?
- A quiz with our audience!
- All of a sudden.
- Let's guess together.
We chose 3 best from
the absurd break-up excuses he got.
"I had a great time today."
"Can I see you again?"
You'll never be able to guess it. - Really?
- It must be really bizarre.
- She had to help out with making Kimchi.
- Her dog had puppies.
- She was moving to a different country.
- Oh.
- That's reasonable.
- These are the excuses I actually got.
And there was the "I'm getting married."
- Huh?
- No.
- There's one more excuse I heard. - What is it?
- "I'm terminally ill."
I heard this too.
- You even heard something like that?
- Yes, I lived a long life. - Hey...
- Let's see what excuse he got
for his break-up.
- Wow.
- Unbelievable.
- What an excuse.
- Please reveal the answer.
- She used up all her data plans.
- This is absurd.
- Unbelievable.
Was this in middle school or something?
- Let's see the next one.
- This is impossible to guess.
- You can't guess this.
- Even the 3rd place one was difficult. - You can't get this one.
- Really?
- Is this true? - Yes.
- She said he's too old for her to date. - What does that mean?
- His age?
- This girl was stressed out from studying.
So I gave her an advice saying that it'll all pay off in the end.
A piece of advice... - That's a good advice.
- I told her that.
- How old was she?
- She was 20 years old.
- She was just 1 year younger than you? - Yes.
- You should drink some water. - He was speaking in an educational tone.
- Maybe it sounded too boring... - And he seemed like an old man...
Let's look at 1st place.
- 1st place.
- What the heck?
- "I need ho hibernate, so I can't see you."
- I think you met some strange people. - Yes.
- I ordered rappoki and 2 kimbaps.
And the girl ordered a rappoki and one kimbap.
But I eat 4-5 times faster than most people.
- You should've slowed down for her.
- I didn't know back then.
- Yes.
- After I finished my own food,
I asked her if I could have some of her food.
- Why did you do that?
- On your first date?
You stole her food?
What do you think is your greatest asset?
- I'm...
It's embarrassing to say it myself...
- It's okay
- I'm innocent...
- You're innocent.
- My friends tells me to take off my glasses.
- Right. I thought that too.
- It seems like he has bad eye sight.
Let's see. - Let's take a look.
- He has nice dark eyebrows.
- You look so much better.
- Wow.
You need to take off your glasses.
- Put on contact lenses.
Have you thought about putting on contacts? - Contact lenses?
- Contact lenses. - You look so much more handsome.
- His glasses are really thick.
- I don't think his looks are the problem at all.
- His looks are not the problem.
- He's very handsome. - His looks are fine.
But maybe his personality is too dull for younger people.
- Yes.
Not too interesting.
- Kind of dull.
- How can you tell that in such a short period of time. - We can tell.
- What about your friends that set up the blind dates?
The friends that set up the blind dates.
- They must know why.
- These are your friends
that you should thank forever.
Let's meet them. Hello.
- Hello. - Hello.
- Do you all have girlfriends?
- Put your hand up if you do. 3, 2, 1.
- It's all about having a charm.
- Nice.
- Okay. - A man is all about his charms.
- How many girlfriends
have you had so far?
- About 7.
- That's a lot. - What about the other friend?
- I've had about 7 as well.
- And the last friend?
- How many including your current girlfriend?
- About 14? - I...
- I can't say it because of my girlfriend.
- We need to protect him. - He's wise.
- Right.
- You should say that she's your first girlfriend. - Yes.
How many girlfriends have you had?
Say that she's your first!
- She's my first girlfriend.
- Why do you think that your friend keeps getting rejected?
- He's too impatient so he puts too much pressure on the girls.
- How? - In what aspect?
- He starts asking them all these questions after only 5 minutes.
"Did you eat?"
"What are you doing?"
"Did you finish your assignment?"
He's too enthusiastic.
- It makes the girls feel uncomfortable. - Right.
- He's too aggressive.
- Yes.
- And he won't let the girls rest.
- Why do you keep setting up blind dates for him?
Is there a reason?
- He buys us meals.
- And you eat together.
- When we finish eating, he asks "Can you set me up on a blind date?"
- Why do you think he gets rejected?
- He's really boring.
He says a lot of old jokes.
- Old jokes.
- When the girl smirks at his jokes,
he thinks his jokes were funny...
- He's slow-witted.
- Did he ask you to set up blind dates for him as well?
- Yes. - How many?
- I don't know many girls. - But still.
- How many? - So my role is to give him dating tips
more than setting up blind dates...
- Giving him advices. - That's nice.
- Are you staying away from other girls because of your girlfriend?
- That's right.
- So funny.
- He doesn't know any other girls.
- No, he doesn't.
- Because his current girlfriend is his first girlfriend. - Right.
- I think these friends are the problem.
I think he feels like there's something wrong with him
because all of his friends have tried everything. - And he feels impatient.
- That's right.
Who has kissed before?
Please put your hands down.
- Why do you get so impatient
when you just met the girl?
Why in such a rush?
- I think women's minds are difficult to understand.
Because... - That's right.
- I think it was my 10th blind date.
People told me to be fierce...
- Oh, fierce.
- Too much.
- She was a little drunk.
- Who? - The girl.
- The girl? - So I asked her where she was,
and told her to wait.
I told her to call me if anyone was bugging her.
- And?
- She didn't answer my calls the next day.
- It's hard to tell what really happened.
We should hear what his friends have to say.
- I think his friends have something to say.
They look frustrated. - A part of the story is missing.
- He went on a blind date with this girl,
and he went to drink with this girl.
He asked for a spoon and
he shoved the steamed egg into his face.
In front of the girl.
And the girl thought he was angry or something.
And she was put off by it. - People told him to be fierce...
- Were you trying to look fierce
in front of the girl?
- Or were you just hungry?
- I hadn't eaten dinner that day.
- But the girl was in front of you. - Yes.
- You should've talked with her instead. - Yes, but I'm really shy
in front of girls.
- So you ate the steamed egg with a spoon?
- Well, he was hungry.
- She thought you were angry.
- I think it's because you walked away.
Why did you do that?
- We've been listening to his story,
but it's hard to tell what really happened.
So we contacted one of his 130 blind dates.
- Wow.
- We...
- Over the phone?
- We have her on the phone right now.
- Let's talk to her.
- No one will be able to tell us why
more than her. - Wow, we should thank her.
- Hello...
- First of all, thank you.
- This must be awkward for her too.
- Right.
- He's not even her ex-boyfriend. - Right.
He's her ex-blind date.
- She had one blind date with him,
and now she has to explain why she rejected him on national TV.
- How was it during your blind date?
- I was drinking and he came all of sudden.
And then he ate the steamed egg...
- Steamed egg. It's her.
- It wasn't a planned meeting...
- He just showed up.
- So you were just texting each other with a plan to meet later,
but he just showed up and...
- And ate steamed egg... - Shoving it in his face.
- Did you like how he looked?
- He was always wearing track suits...
- So you didn't find him to be very attractive, right?
- That's right.
- You didn't like him because
he never had a girlfriend before?
- Right.
- I heard that he was always asking his friends to set up blind dates for him,
so it was hard for me to take him seriously. - Right.
- That's true. - Because he goes on a lot of blind dates.
- How do you think he should act on his next blind date?
- That's a good question.
- Instead of going on random blind dates,
I think he should try to find someone around him that he likes.
- People around him?
- I hope that he can find someone he can really bond with.
- Do you have a boyfriend now?
- I got a boyfriend now.
- I see.
I see that you've met someone now.
Thank you for talking to us on the phone.
- Yes, thank you.
- Thank you.
- I think he should meet someone
when he's feeling more relaxed and patient.
It can make girls feel uncomfortable
if you seem too desperate to date someone.
I don't think you should've went to
see her so randomly, when you weren't even dressed up nicely.
- Did you understand
what she just said?
You still don't get it?
- I still don't get it.
- You don't see why?
- The girl you went on blind date with
just said that you should meet someone
that you really like and then ask her out.
No one likes a man
who will hit on any girl.
Right?
- He's only 21 years old.
- Right. - That's right.
- Yes. - That's true.
- Of course you're inexperienced if you're just 21 years old.
Dating can seem difficult.
Even some 31 year-olds find it difficult.
- Do you know how many single people there are that are older than you?
- What do you think?
- I'll try to be more patient.
- And calm down a little bit.
And approach them more carefully...
- Please say something nice about your friend.
- Joon-young works out a lot and he is very fit.
So he is able to protect his own girl.
- He likes it. - He's happy.
- Please say something to all the women out there watching this show.
- I might look a little scary,
but I'm as innocent as a child.
So please don't be scared.
- He's cute. - So cute.
- He's cute.
- So innocent.
- Do you think this is a concern?
- I don't think this is a concern.
- It's not a concern.
- I can tell that he's going to be a great boyfriend
once he gets a girlfriend.
- I don't think it's a concern too.
I think his friends probably begged people to go on blind dates with him.
- His friends probably just wanted
free meals from him.
- That's right.
- If he approaches in a different direction,
I think he'll definitely be able to get a girlfriend.
He's great.
- I don't think it's a concern.
I think if he acts comfortable around the girls,
he's a very likeable guy.
- Please press the button if you can relate to this concern.
5, 4, 3, 2, 1.
- Stop.
- Let's see the result.
- Okay.
- You're still young.
- I think they're telling you to meet someone 36 years older.
- So 'Ultimatum' takes this week's victory.
- How was it today?
- I think having a happy family is the most important,
so I hope that they'll live happily ever after.
- I hope that you will have
many more good days ahead.
This was fun.
- Thank you.
- For a healthy nation without concerns.
- We are always on your side.
- Thank you. - Thank you.